Saturday, June 28, 2008

Happy Anniversary!


WOW! I really had no idea when I was walking down the isle that all of this would happen.


Year 1: Had no idea how to cook. Pretty sure I never even used the oven in our apartment.


Year 2: Luke joins the Air Force, have a baby, and moved to Germany - us crazy kids!


Year 3: What a rough year


Year 4: Had another baby, Bethany. Now two kids, in Germany, 4th floor apartment, lousy paychecks, can't wait to come home...


Year 5: Yeah....Coming Home, now sights set on a house of our very own


Year 6: We get Cody!!! Moved into a new house, life is sooo good.


Year 7: Disneyworld...first family vacation (too fun!)


Year 8: Move to Meeker and a house that was ridiculously primative, I'm surprised it had plumbing


Year 9: We have a new baby, Dulcey.


Year 10: We move back to Grand Junction (sigh of relief) Luke and I get to have our own bedroom again


Year 11: Well, we thought we got to have our own bedroom, baby number five, Anna-Claire graces us with her presence


Year 12: Disneyland with all five kids, watch the kids get a little older, go on a few dates


Lord, please be with us through the next year, may it be blessed and full of your love. Thank You for everything you've given us and all the little things. AMEN!


Happy Anniversary, Luke!

I Love You!

Thursday, June 26, 2008

How I met my husband

This is in light of our 12th Anniversary!


June 28, 1996


What's his name? John Lucas Murray "Luke"


When is his Birthday? December 14th


What is his occupation? Plumber


What's your biggest Pet Peeve about this person? his perfectionism, it's very OCD


Name something that nobody really knows about him except you: no


Where did you meet? My youth group took a weekend trip to Denver and I sat next to him on the bus

What was the first thought that went through your head when you met? not a chance

Do you remember what he/she was wearing? some kind of t-shirt, shorts, and a ball cap

Where was the first time you kissed this person? At his parents' house, back porch (he forgot to set the emergency brake on his jeep and it began rolling into the neighbors yard- he had to chase it down)

Where did you go for your first date? officially as a couple, probably the movies

How long did you know this person before you became a couple? around 6 month


Has this person ever proposed to you? yes


Do you and this person have kids together? 5 who woulda thought

Have you ever broken the law with this person? I don't think so


When was the first time you realized that you liked this person? immediately

Do you get along with his family? most of the time

Do you trust this person? I've never seen him lie..... and I've had to trek across town to go back to walmart because he realized the cashier forgot to charge us for asparagus.


Do you see them as your partner in your future? Of course!

What is the most expensive thing they gave you? A house and a few really great vacations

Where do you see each other in 15 years from now? putting kids through college and taking more (adults only) trips together

Monday, June 23, 2008

Homeschool Prep Time


I know that summer finally just started, but as a homeschooling mom my thoughts are on the next school year.

First things first, I've gotten out my BJU curriculum catalog and begun figuring out what I'm going to need, what I want,and then what I can actually afford.


This is my list...yikes!


Cody - 1st Grade


Phonics 1

Spelling 1

Reading 1A-1F

Reading Worktext

Math 1 (3rd edition)

Handwriting Worktext

Heritage Studies & Science

*extra outside the classroom*

Drum lessons

Karate Class


So far the cost for Cody (not including the lessons) is $129.50


Bethany - 4th Grade


English 4

Spelling 4

Reading (I met you in a story)

Reading Worktext 4

Math 4

Science and Heritage Studies (to be read and done along with Justin Grade 5)

Handwriting 4

*extra outside the classroom*

Ballet Class ( 2 hours per week)

Karate Class

Violin Lessons


So far the cost for Bethany (not including lessons) is $86.00 -thanks book sharing and hand-me-downs


Justin - 5th Grade


English 5

Spelling 5

Reading (pages in my head)

Reading Worktext 5

Math 5

Handwriting 5

Extra book reading- 30 minutes

*extras outside the classroom*

karate Class

Cello Lessons


So far the cost for Justin (not including lessons) is $202.00


Grand total is $417.50


And who knows how much all of this will change before the first day of the year.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Chicken Parmesan


As promised, here is a fabulous recipe I got online a while back.


Ingredients:

Chicken Breast

Salt

3 cups of bread crumbs

5 eggs

2tbs milk

combination of vegetable and olive oil

marinara sauce

parmesan and mozzerella cheese

oregano, thyme, pepper (a pinch- more or less)


Directions:

*I usually create of station with three bowls. One with flour, next one with eggs and milk, and last one with bread crumbs (including salt and spices).

*Preheat oven to 400 degrees

*Heat a large skillet on medium with oil.

*Pound chicken flat - coat with flour, then eggs, then bread crumbs, add to skillet until golden crispy

*Pour half of the marinara sounce into a large pan. Once the chicken is golden, place the chicken in the pan. Add the rest of the maranara sauce over the chicken...top with cheese.

*bake for 25-30 minutes


I love serving this over spagetti with garlic bread. A good wine to go with it is Australian Shiraz (any brand).

Thank You!

A really big THANK YOU to everyone that sent flowers, brought food, and helped with the clean up. Also for taking time out of your busy lives to come and grieve with our family.
A huge thanks to the Lockharts for coming to Grand Junction and filling in for Pastor Mike.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Saturday morning I got a call from my mom, in fewer words..."you need to come say goodbye"
Luke dropped me off at the hospital and I walked into my grandpa's room. And said...what noone want to say..."hi grandpa, it's me Kimberly.......goodbye."




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WHO AM I???

1.What time did you get up this morning? 9 (hard to believe, I know)

2.Diamonds or pearls? Diamonds...really big ones

3.What was the last film you saw at the cinema? Prince Caspian (great movie, btw...and it's a 50/50 for following the book)

4.What is your favorite TV show? WOW! Does TV still actually exist?

5.What do you usually have for breakfast? Glass of Milk

6.What is your middle name? Michelle (hence the shell)

7.What food do you dislike? Anything that has a fishy smell or taste or resemblance, that and black licorice

8.What is your favorite song at moment? Hmmm...worship song (hosanna by hillsong), alternative rock (evanescence anything), easy listening (Colby Calais anything)

9.What kind of car do you drive? Around town is the Honda Odyssey, to the hills, lake, or camping it's the suburban

10.Favorite sandwich? Definitely Turkey...some things never change

11.What characteristic do you despise? whiners

12.Favorite item of clothing? hmmm...I really don't know

13.If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go? I really want to see Pennsylvania, D.C., and most of New England

14.Favorite brand of clothing? I love gymboree when I can afford it

15.Where would you retire to? A huge RV to travel all over the country

16.What was your most recent memorable birthday? I spent my 21st in Paris, France...next one will be in MAUI....I'm soooo spoiled

17.Favorite sport to watch? Denver Broncos and Nascar

18.When is your birthday? September 5th

19.Are you a morning person or a night person? hmmm...I think....neither

20.What is your shoe size? 7

21.Any exciting news you would like to share with us? Dale Earnhart Jr won the race yesterday...WOOT!

22.What did you want to be when you were little? a nurse..till I saw what they really do..I don't have the stomach for it

23.How are you today? ok

24.What is your favorite flower? Tulips, Lilies, Orchids, and Bird of Paradise

25.What is a day on the calendar you are looking forward to? September 4th...fly to MAUI

26.What was the last thing you ate? handful of peanuts

27.Do you wish on stars? no

28.If you were a crayon, what color would you be? yellow

29.How is the weather right now? between warm and hot...finally

30.Last person you spoke to on the phone? My mom

31.Favorite soft drink? Pepsi one...it's my vice

32.Favorite Restaurant? Cheesecake Factory...my mouth waters at the thought

33.What was your favorite toy as a child? my special baby doll..now she's missing an arm and the cryer doesn't work...but I still love her

34.Summer or winter? SUMMER

35.Chocolate or Vanilla? Are you kidding?? What kind of a person would pick vanilla


36.Coffee or tea? I think coffee

37.When was the last time you cried? yesterday...yep and probably will all week...I don't like it

38.What is under your bed? a baseball bat

39.What did you do last night? laid in bed and tried not to throw up

40.What are you afraid of? bugs, flying, etc, etc, etc

41.Salty or sweet? If it was my last meal on earth...sweet

42.How many keys on your key ring? hmm...I think maybe 4...funny I think I rely on remotes more

43.How many towns have you lived in? hmm...GJ, Steamboat Springs, Palisade, Kaiserslautern, Meeker...5

44.Do you make friends easily? I think so

45.Do you like finding out all this stuff about your friends? Yeah...its good to know your friends well

Thursday, June 12, 2008

"DA MONUE, DA MONUE?"....."THE MENU!"

Alright, it's back!!!

Wednesday - Sloppy Joes

Thursday - Refried Bean Casserole

Friday - Nachos

Saturday - Pigs in a Blanket (it's cheap)

Sunday - Chicken Parmesan (recipe coming soon)

Monday - Phillie Cheese Steak (recipe coming soon)

Tuesday - Chicken patties, baked potatoes, and a veggie

Monday, June 9, 2008

Cody VS The Chair



Cody: Dad, I'm stuck!


Dad: Are you serious?


Mom: Ha ha ha ha ha ha


Cody: (cries and tugs and pulls)

Dad: Well, let's see (attempts to pull Cody through the bars) Hmmmph! You really are stuck. How did you do this, Cody?


Cody: (cries)

Mom: Ha ha ha ha, no wait let me get the camera!


Cody: (cries some more)





Tuesday, June 3, 2008

The Secret of Life


Rejoice and be glad, because you have a great reward waiting for you in heaven.

Matthew 5:12


This is one of my favorite stories of all time. My family has been going through a lot with my grandpa in the hospital. This story keeps coming to mind. It's by Max Lucado...so you know it's gonna be good. Grab a tissue. I know it's long, but it's worth the time.


Melva was the only person in the waiting room. When she saw Eric, Landon, and Shannon, she smiled.

"Josh will be glad to see you." she told them.

"Will they let us in?" Landon asked.

"For a few minutes."

Shannon sat next to Melva. "Is he going to be okay?"

Melva spoke softly. "Josh is very sick. His heart is weak. The doctors just don't know." Her voice was firm as she spoke, but her eyes filled with tears.

"You can come in now." It was the nurse at the door. They followed her into the intensive care ward.

A circle of rooms surrounded the nurses station. Behind each glass wall were patients. Some were bandaged, others were in traction. Others, like Josh, had tubes inserted into their arms and wires that went all over their skin.

They'd never seen Josh so still. He lay on his back, eyes closed. Above his head a monitor was beeping with each heartbeat. A plastic mask connected to an oxygen hose covered his nose and mouth.

"It helps him breathe." Melva explained.

Landon and Eric stopped at the foot of the bed, but Shannon went up to Josh's side. She put her little hand in his big one and squeezed. "Can he talk?" she asked.

"Not with the oxygen tube," Melva replied, "but he can hear you." He opened his eyes.

"Look who is here to see you." Melva tried to sound cheerful.

Josh lifted his eyebrows. Eric and Landon walked around the bed and stood at the side of tehir old friend. They'd never seen him look so tired, so weak. He opened his hand, and both Eric and Landon held it. They didn't know what to say. So no one said anything. Josh's eyes went from face to face.

After a few moments Josh lifted his hand and began to draw in the air. "That means he wants to write something," Melva interpreted. "He has something to tell us."

With a pad on his stomach, Josh scrawled three words and handed them to his wife. She read them, noddod softly and assured Josh, "I'll take them there and read it."

Just then the nurse entered the room. "I'm sorry," she instructed, "but visiting time is over. You can return at five o'clock."

Josh looked at each of the children. He forced a smile from beneath the mask. The told him good-bye. Melva leaned over and kissed his forehead. "We'll be back," she whispered and left the room.

He closed his eyes.

As they walked down the hall, Landon asked Melva, "What did he write?"

She handed him the pad. The handwriting was difficult to read. "OBS...STO...OBSTER. No it's obstet..."

"Obstetrical," Melva said."He wrote 'obstetrical ward'. Josh wants me to take you there and tell you something."

It was a quiet group that rode the elevator to the lower floor.

Only Shannon spoke. "A hospital is a sad place." she commented.

"What you are about to see may change you mind," Melva responded

The elevator door opened to a room of bright colors and excited people. Bright balloons were painted on one wall, and a colorful aquarium stood in front of the other. Straight ahead were the backs of a row of people--people all looking through a large window. They were laughing and pointing and lifting up small children so they could see.

"It's the baby section!" Eric said. "This is where my cousin was born."

"Can we see the babies?" Shannon asked.

"That's why we're here." said Melva

All four went to the window. Shannon was just tall enough to peek in and see the newborns.

"They are so little!" she exclaimed.

It was easy to be amazed at the little bundles wrapped in blankets. Most were asleep, tiny faces soft and relaxed. But a couple were crying loudly. "They must be hingry," Eric laughed.

"They've had quite a journey!" Melva added.

"Man," Landon abserved, "this room is just the opposite of the room where Josh is. Here everyone is happy and excited. Up there they are quiet and afraid."

"In a way it is different," Melva agreed, "but in another it is very similar."

"How?" asked Landon

They went to a couch and took a seat. Melva spoke as she took out a letter.

"Would you like to hear it?"

They all nodded


Dear Landon, Eric, and Shannon,


This is a very important letter. Meliva is reading it to you because something has happened to me. She has brought you here because I want you to learn one of life's secrets-the secret of death.

Very few people understand death. Most are afraid of it. Most try to ignore it. Hardly anyone wants to talk about it. But God wasnt you to understand it. And He doesn't want you to be scared.

Many think death is when you go to sleep. They are wrong. Death is when you finally wake up. Death is when you see what God has seen all along.

I want you to do something for me. I want you to think about these babies. Imagine what has ahppened to them. They have just left one place and entered another. Just a few hours ago, each one of them was in a mommy's tummy. They were safe. They were warm. They had all they could eat. All they had to do was sleep.

Suddenly they were pushed into a strange world that they had never seen before.

Imagine you could speak to each one of these infants before he was born. What if you told him what was to happen? What if you said, "In a few minutes you are going to leave this tummy. Your time here is about up. Before you know you will be in a room full of people and lights and noises and smells..."

"I don't want to go." the baby might say. "I like it here. Besides I don't know what a people is.Thanks, but no thanks. I'm happy where I am. I want to just stay right here."


Landon laughed at the thought of a baby not wanting to be born. "The baby doesn't have a choice, Melva. He has to come out./"

"Yeah," Eric said, "who would want to stay inside a tummy forever?"

"That's exactly what Josh is explaining," Melva answered. "Listen ."


You see, kids, there comes a time in life when we, like the baby, have to make a journey. Just like the baby has to leave the tummy and enter this world, these comes a time for us to leave this world and go to Heaven.

And most people don't want to go. We act like the the baby in the tummy. We like it where we are. This world may not be perfect, but at least it's familiar, and we don't want to leave.


Melva struggled to read on.


Eric, Landon, and Shannon, it's time for me to leave. It's my turn to go and be with God in Heaven. I don't want you to be afraid. I'm not. It's my time. I accept that. It's okay to be sad, but don't be angry; don't be scared, God knows what H'es doing.

I will miss you, but we wont be separated very long. Someday your time will come to leave. And when it's your time, I want you to know I'll be waiting for you. I'll be there when you get there. I'll be one of those proud people standing at the glass.

And standing beside me will be your Father. Your Heavenly Father. We'll be waiting.

Don't forget the secret.

Love,

Josh


Melva had barely finished reading the letter when her name was paged over the speaker system, telling her to the intensive care unit. She swallowed hard, looked at the kids and said, "Let's go." When they reached Josh's floor, the kids waited outside as Melva went in.

When Melva returned, her face looked pale and sad. She sat on the couch and wept. "They said he dozed off and never woke up."

"He's gone away?" Shannon asked.

"No, Shannon. He hasn't gone away. He's gone home. He's finally gone home. It's the day he's always dreamed about."

I Corinthians 15:51

"I am telling you this strange and wonderful secret: we shall not die, but we chall all be given new bodies."

Monday, June 2, 2008

Isn't Technology Wonderful!


This morning I took my three oldest kids to Vacation Bible School. Thinking, wow, this is great...but now what do I do with all this time and only two little girls. As I head to the car trying to figure out what I'm going to do at 9am in the morning I hit the button on my car remote. The one that opens the sliding doors. My three year old gets in on one side (very independently....and buckles herself up) and I go around to put the little one in her car seat. Little did I know that Dulcey had pulled on the car door handle at the same time....sending the car door into a fit. Opening and then suddenly closing again, but not before my three year old tried to get in. I was around the other side of the car and not aware of what was about to ensue. The next thing I hear is a scream....I immediately hit the door button again thinking she had gotten her fingers caught in the door. I ran around the car found her crying and checked all of her fingers. "Dulcey, where did the door get you?" I look at her face to see blood coming from her nose. Yep, the door closed on her nose! I know...it's not a great image to get in your head. Although, after the fact, she's fine...she just has some red lines on her nose that will go away in a few days....it really is comical.

Party, Party, Party!!!!

Ok, so this is what all the secrets were about.
A few months ago the gang (Brian, Michelle, Todd, Melissa, Luke, Me, and my Dad) all got together and began planning a birthday surprise for my Mom's 50th. We all brought our ideas to the table and came up with a plan. We flew her brother and his wife in from CA. Rented a limo and had a private formal...black tie...evening on the town. Afterwards, we all went to Todd and Lissa'a house for a masquerade murder mystery with all the chocolate dessert you could imagine.
It was fabulous! And here are the highlights of the night.





My Dad, My Mom, Uncle Wade, and Auntie Jennifer








Michelle and I as Audrey Hepburn and Rita Hayworth




Luke and Todd as Cary Grant and Frank Sinatra



My Mom as Judy Garland and Wade as Gene Kelly


My sister, Melissa, as Cyd Charrise